Falling in love and falling in love: which planets have the last word? | Astrology

Have you ever wondered why couples drift away from each other despite being together for decades? What leads to the growing incompatibility between romantic partners when they have known and understood each other for so long? In other words, how come later in life some people lose interest in their partner when they had fallen madly in love with the same person at some point?

We have seen many such incidents in public life lately. Recently, the famous South Indian movie star, Dhanush, announced his separation from his wife, Aishwarya, after 18 years together. Prior to that, the popular Bollywood couple, Aamir Khan and Kiran Rao decided to go their separate ways last year after 16 years. We also heard about the fairy tale love story of Hrithik Roshan and Sussanne Khan biting the dust as they decided to look the other way a few years ago after 14 long years.

Everyone talks about Venus as the planet of infatuation and desires. He is responsible for making us fall in love. But then is it also responsible for making us fall in love? Not really. Venus is the planet that wants us to experience the pleasures of life, love being one of them. The influences on Venus in your birth chart will tell us your love quotient, the qualities you like in your partner, and the pattern of your love life. But, when it comes to loving abandonment, the planets to watch out for are Rahu and Ketu.

The energy of Rahu drives us to desire experience, while Ketu leads to apathy to experience. Rahu-Ketu are therefore very important planets and should be analyzed carefully to gain insight into an individual’s deepest motivations. They tell us where the subconscious is headed, the flow of experience. We can get an idea of ​​the longevity of the karmic connection between two people if their cards are compatible in their Rahu and Ketu placement patterns.

The relationships defined by Rahu are forward-looking and focused on the potential for growth. It provides an opportunity to grow and do work together that either person might not be able to do alone in this birth. On the other hand, the relationships defined by Ketu look backwards. These represent the experiments that we have already completed at our leisure. These learnings and the wisdom of these experiences exist with us, but we are oblivious and indifferent to them.

In the chart of a couple, when Rahu establishes a connection with Venus, either by conjunction or by placement in its sign, it makes one obsessed with matters relating to love and relationships. The person is ready to defy all wisdom to achieve his dearest desires. We are trapped in a world of illusion and nothing matters but to achieve love at any cost. Rahu tends to create very strong but unconscious desires, without really understanding their causes, which can lead to compulsive behaviors, addictions, fantasies and unrealistic imaginations.

Unlike Rahu, who is never satisfied with love and lust, Ketu’s association with Venus leads to dissatisfaction in the existing relationship due to lack of feeling or desire for companionship. These people tend to force themselves into relationships, but end up getting out of them on their own. Directionless Ketu takes Venus in many directions in love and relationships before Venus finally realizes there is no simple way to reach her soul mate.

When such combinations become active in one’s horoscope through the functioning of Dasha, especially Rahu or Ketu, then we are compelled to introspect and rethink our love goals and the purpose behind relationships. This leads to a discoloration of relationships and a sudden lack of interest or disenchantment with the existing partner. The natural outcome is to step out of the relationship and start your life journey anew in search of your “true soul mate.”

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Neeraj Dhankher

(Vedic Astrologer, Founder – Astro Zindagi)

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